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Sandy
 
Joined in 2007
November 16, 2007, 21:55

Christ was silent on alot of issues, including environmental concerns, animal rigths and neglect of the elderly, although many Christians and non Christians alike would agree that these behaviours are less than satisfactory. Your line of thinking suggests that simply because Christ does not expressly forbid something then it is ok. Does that justify decimating rainforests, torturing kittens or taking a baseball bat to grandma? I think not. God gave us the entirity of the scriptures not just the gospels.


My point was to take your breath away belive me I am greatly relieved that you did not praise that bit of my last post. My point was if truth is subjective, and our integrity relies on our own personal codes of ethics then you run into those kinds of problems. Family First is pretty big over here in America and they do actually put homosexuals and peadophiles in the same basket, they do act with integrity in accordance to their beliefs and as the beliefs are spiritual they are acting with what they affirm as integrity towards God… and as it is subjective then they can’t be wrong…. See the vicious circle?


I could also refute your agruments about harm. What about a married person deserting their family to live as an out gay? That causes harm and pain, does that mean that in that particular situation then they ought to still live a ‘straight’ life? That goes against your whole theory. There is also the issue of chrildern suspectedly being harmed by gay parents, I’m not saying I agree but its cretainly one of the more prodominant harm arguments. When in interpersonal relationships there is always a possibility that people will be harmed in some way and it becomes increasingly difficult to draw the line.



Myfanwe
 
Joined in 2007
November 16, 2007, 22:22

I can’t see a way of answering any of your last post without it becoming a more and more subjective and emotive debate. So, I will simply agree to disagree.


I have had enough theological bun fights to last me an eternity over this stuff. I am convinced of where I stand, and I can say that I have resolved these issues for myself.


This discussion is getting to the point that it is triggering a whole bunch of emotional baggage for me, and I had best quit the field now or risk losing what shreds of faith I can still cling to.


I see God differently to you, and there is no way either of us will ever convince the other…


I humbly retreat but don’t retract.


Blessings



Anthony Venn-Brown
 
Joined in 2005
November 17, 2007, 07:22

for the last 9 years i’ve followed my heart Sandy…….and its all worked out okay for me and those around me. there are people who would disagree with me…..some even oppose me and quote verses to justify their rejection of me…..but in the end I still think its all okay……I trust Gods spirit in my heart…..I haven’t killed any body…..hehe……and certainly not intentionally hurt anyone.


I trust God and I trust my heart.


Unfortunatelty though I see a lot of people being hurt by those who would use Gods word to hurt not to heal.


If God is love……the simple question above everything is not how do i interpret this passage of scripture and tell others and myself how we should live…….but I ask myself the question “what would love do now”…..and hopefully I am in God.


jsut my thoughts



Sparrow77
 
Joined in 2007
November 17, 2007, 10:37

Wow … quite the debate going on here. I guess I’m in a place where I’m not really convinced either way. I believe that the bible is God’s word and can be analysed as a historical text and can be understand if we look at the intended audience, purpose and context of each book. I want my faith to be unwavering and my beliefs unshakable so questioning is important to me. I can’t just go with my feelings (which I’m sure I do at times) because what if I’m wrong? What if I am just trying to justify my lifestyle? What if it disappoints my heavenly father? I will keep trying to understand what God says through the bible because I don’t want to get it wrong. God is love but he is also just … I fear Him.



Myfanwe
 
Joined in 2007
November 17, 2007, 10:50

Wow … quite the debate going on here. I guess I’m in a place where I’m not really convinced either way. I believe that the bible is God’s word and can be analysed as a historical text and can be understand if we look at the intended audience, purpose and context of each book. I want my faith to be unwavering and my beliefs unshakable so questioning is important to me. I can’t just go with my feelings (which I’m sure I do at times) because what if I’m wrong? What if I am just trying to justify my lifestyle? What if it disappoints my heavenly father? I will keep trying to understand what God says through the bible because I don’t want to get it wrong. God is love but he is also just … I fear Him.


I spent 23 years asking all the hard questions of myself, and wrestling with it all and begging God for answers. I believe that I have found those answers, although I don’t force them on anyone else, and I believe that the answers I got, I got from God. 🙂 I just keep coming back to the words of Paul about getting into debates: “Let each one be convinced in his own mind…”


I just wish I could remember that before getting into a debate 😆

I am getting better, but not yet perfected.


Blessings,



Sandy
 
Joined in 2007
November 17, 2007, 17:24

Well as we have all gathered by now I am a fan of debates but only to the point in which it is healthy, rational and to the point. If this discussion has brought up some baggage for you Mags then I respect your decision to live and let live. I certainly don’t want to be the cause of any distress.



Myfanwe
 
Joined in 2007
November 17, 2007, 19:53

Well as we have all gathered by now I am a fan of debates but only to the point in which it is healthy, rational and to the point. If this discussion has brought up some baggage for you Mags then I respect your decision to live and let live. I certainly don’t want to be the cause of any distress.


It’s cool, Sandy, I just felt the need to pull back because I was getting very emotional. I felt it was best to let it go at that point. I’m not upset with you personally, the issues are mine to work through.


Blessings,



frogger
 
Joined in 2005
November 17, 2007, 22:06

hi all… i know i havent been on here much but at some point in there near future i am going to put up my scriptural non personal view of what the Bible says about homosexuality.


There is so much emotional argument on this topic, and whilst that is good and well and that ultimately gives us true piece (in my opinion) i think Sandy appears to be searching for a scriptural basis for opinion.


I do however work alot so it will come soon… soon and very soon…


I believ the foundation of my argument involves scripture and language translation. I do not think the Bible in its current translation can be used in an argument against Homosexuality as it is not pure in its translation. There is definitive errors…


anyway… all in good time



Sandy
 
Joined in 2007
November 17, 2007, 22:51

Looking forward to it Jannah, thanks for taking the time.



Anthony Venn-Brown
 
Joined in 2005
November 19, 2007, 10:22

I’m reminded also of the verse iron sharpen iron.


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